Hi, I’m Bianca White, certified sex coach specializing in love, intimacy and relationships. I’m a native Angeleno, and my practice is centered in Hollywood, CA, thus giving birth to and becoming the Hollywood Love Coach. After 20 years as a costume designer, customer, and stylist in the motion picture industry, I became curious as to how to get in touch with my sensuality.
For far too many years, I felt, like a lot of other people, that sex was not measuring up to what I thought it was supposed to be like, “faking it” was all too common and orgasms seemed to be far and few between. I felt like there was a huge mystery in the education of sexual anatomy of the general population that gave rise to so many of our vast inaccuracies about sex. We’ve become a hypocritical sexual society in which we hyper-sexualize everything and also desexualize everything all at the same time. What sense can be made about our current status of: Who are we supposed to be like as sexual beings? How sexual are we allowed to be? What is too much? What is right? What are we supposed to feel? How do we allow ourselves to feel what we think we might deserve? Will I ever find somebody to love me? Am I supposed to be ok with chivalry or not? What is love supposed to look like in this modern world? I don’t want anybody to touch me. I don’t want to have sex, or I want to have sex all the time. Am I normal? Who can help? I can.I continue to search for ways to help people and couples learn new ways of planning out their ideal loving, intimate and sexual relationships through my gentle and supportive coaching practice.
Coaching is different from therapy because therapy deals with issues in your past and why you do the things you do now, and while that might be important, that’s not what the purpose of coaching is. The purpose of coaching is to set a goal of what you want your intimate loving and sexual relationships to be like and I work with you to make sure you have success in achieving those goals. I keep you focused, accountable and on the right track. If you’ve tried everything else and felt defeated, it might be time to try someone like me, someone passionately different and committed to helping my clients become happier and healthier in love and sex.